I dating my best friend ex boyfriend
I'm torn between my own desire for lasting relationship bliss and my desire to preserve the most important friendship in my life. —Something Has to Give Submit Your Own Question to a Therapist Your friend is going to be hurt. When you made the choice to start hanging out with your best friend’s ex without telling her, that’s when you made the decision to hide your actions, and possibly your feelings, from her.
On some level you must have known that she would be bothered by it, and you chose not to tell her.
There will be no shortage of people with opinions and judgment.
I'm not too ashamed to admit I was always a little envious of my best friend when we were growing up.Okay, I'm about to admit something that *no* girl ever should. We were never really official but there were definitely sparks that flew between us. The rule I ignored was talking to your friend about it first. But even though my BFF and I are as tight as ever (c'mon, chicks before dicks), there are some things I should have asked myself before I went down the dangerous road of liking her former significant other. And so did my best friend's other friends, when they told her that her boyfriend had a crush on me. He was one of my best friends but every time I was with him, I had this nagging curiosity. "The sad truth is I never really considered how all of this would affect my friend. There's a definite girl code you should abide by when you're dating.I imagine you once thought that you would never choose a guy over a friendship.Those beliefs get put to the test when we are confronted with real-world feelings and experiences.